high holidays

Gratitude and Forgiving the Unforgivable

A while back I suggested a unique way of doing the chesbon nefesh (soul’s accounting) we are expected to do ...

Pride on Yom Kippur? These Nice Jewish Girls Say ‘No Way’

It was a small miracle when the Northern Virginia Pride (NOVA) committee scheduled its first pride after three years of planning and ...

Our Prophets, Ourselves: Jonah, Judgment and the Act of Repentance

In many ways, the message of the Book of Jonah seems antithetical to that of Yom Kippur.

Dear Friend, May You Be Written in the Book of Life

“May you be Written in the Book of Life” is such a nice phrase to utter at this time of ...

What “Those Jews” Really Need

Throughout the high holiday season, we think a lot about judgment. It’s a heavy word, and also a word that ...

Ringing in the New Year as a Community

My niece just started Hebrew School. As someone who didn’t have a formal Jewish education as a kid, I’m pretty ...

Steps for Making Your Synagogue LGBTQ Inclusive: Preparing for Rosh Hashanah

With the High Holidays right around the corner, now is a great time to be thinking about the message your ...

Prayer for Diversity

Change is difficult. It can only happen when we reflect on the present and imagine different possibilities for going forward. ...

Kol Yisrael Aravim Zeh Bazeh: All Israel Is Responsible for One Another

One of my family’s favorite Sarah Silverman routines plays on the Jewish habit of always claiming one of our own: ...

From Flute to Shofar, Finding Spirit in the Sound

I never could carry a tune but, at an early age, I discovered that I could make a soulful sound ...