Bar Mitzvah

The Poetry of Jewish Black Identity

I became Bar Mitzvah on April 20th, 2002, the 130th anniversary of Hitler’s birth. My dad’s side of the family ...

A Bar Mitzvah Boy’s Call for Marriage Equality

I am a very, very strong supporter of equal rights and the freedom of men and women to marry whomever ...

What to Get: The Bar or Bat Mitzvah Gift

What gift to get for a Bar or Bat Mitzvah? The challenge with gifts for a life cycle event is ...

Bully on the Bimah: Bar Mitzvah, No Matter What?

Picture this: a really mean kid.A kid who spends each day at school calling others names, like fat and loser. ...

Our Daughters’ Tallitot

In the fortunate cases it is the grandparents, often it is the parents, and sometimes even a sibling who stands ...

A Letter to Students: The Lesson of Elijah

Dearest Students,Early on in the academic year (and the Jewish New Year!), I thought it would be a poignant time ...

A Southern Jewish Superhero

The call comes in the middle of the night.“Your nephew’s got it in his head that he wants to have ...

Interfaith families bringing new realities to Jewish communal life

I’m a big fan of Julie Weiner’s blog at The Jewish Week.  It’s one of those blogs that I read ...

When 50 Happens to Good People: Part Two

Ok, so I hadn’t done time in prison, I’d just spent one day there. I’d just covered what was believed ...

When 50 Happens to Good People: Part One

I turned 50. It wasn’t supposed to happen to me. I do yoga. I moisturize. I still fit into the ...