mourning
My Mexican Pseudo-Shiva
Since my mom had a history of outliving her prognoses I assumed that this would be the case once again.
Lech-Lecha – One More Layer of Goodbye
In memoriam, for Rabbi Samuel Dresner, HaRav Shumel Chayyim ben Yehuda v’ Malka z”l.
Accepting a Reality We Did Not Anticipate: Lessons from this Week’s Torah Portion
The word for “comfort” (lenahem) in Hebrew can also mean to “regret.” One of the most difficult parts of gaining ...
Spiritual Medicine
Jewish sages decided that intense mourning time should be seven days only.
Find Out About Your Loved Ones
As a rabbi, one of the life-cycle processes I accompany people through is the funeral. When a person dies, burying ...
When A Friend Dies
On extending Jewish mourning rituals to non-traditional mourners.
I’m Too Broken to Write This Blog
Rarely have I been so deeply affected, so deeply wounded inside, so utterly shattered.
From Mourning to Memory: Chasing Balloons, Wearing a Ring
For those of you who wear rings, this probably sounds familiar: you fiddle with your ring, a thousand times a ...
Overcoming Obstacles to Recite Mourner’s Kaddish with Dignity
My father died on Rosh Hashanah 5764. He died at home, in a clean white bed, surrounded by his wife ...