When Impostor Syndrome is Good

Rabbi Hoover blessing congregation small

It’s ordination season. After years of hard work, both theoretical and practical, a number of rabbinic and cantorial students will become real, grown-up clergy this month. My ordination, in 2011, was an overwhelming and momentous experience. This year, I have the honor of being the presenter at the Academy for Jewish Religion’s ordination for my congregation’s rabbinic intern.

Posted on May 3, 2016

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Passover and Questions for All


As Passover draws to a close this weekend, I’m thinking about two things: a pizza binge on Friday night and the theme of questions. (In the Reform movement, Passover and other festivals end one day earlier than they do among other Jews in the Diaspora.) A central part of Passover observance (particularly at the seder meal) is retelling a story, and that storytelling kicks off with the four questions.

Posted on April 29, 2016

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Jewish Ritual and “The Checklist Manifesto”

checklist to-do

Jewish ritual is complicated. Take the most recent ritual we just celebrated, the seder. It has 14 steps, each of which is to be done in a certain order and in a certain way, and it’s easy to get confused. First, we wash our hands without a blessing, but later, we do wash with a blessing. We ask, “Wait, do I eat the maror with the charoset now, or later?” Even more simply, we might ask, “Which line of Dayeinu are we on now?”

Posted on April 28, 2016

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Let’s Be Free!

peach blossom,green grass with sunshine

Although the winter in the Northeast was milder than the past few, I still struggle with the season of cold and shortened days of the Winter Solstice. I am one who sees myself as diagnosed with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). Indeed, the impact of winter, punctuated with the instability of our world has made many of us collectively welcome spring with a zestful sense of gratitude.

Posted on April 27, 2016

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From Slavery to Freedom, From Grief to Joy

moving home office

In ten days we will be surrounded by these same boxes in a different house. After nine months of preparation—purging our house of unnecessary stuff and packing the essentials for our journey—my family will leave our home of sixteen years. The timing of our move, immediately after Passover, inspired much discussion at our Seder about leaving behind the burdens of last year and embracing the excitement of beginning anew.

Posted on April 26, 2016

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Freedom From and Freedom To

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Tonight marks the beginning of Passover. Jews ask over the world will gather to celebrate zman cheirutenu, the season of our freedom. We will read all about freedom from slavery. We will drink four cups of wine to rejoice in the four freedoms given to our ancestors by God. We will eat charoset, a mixture of fruits, nuts, juice or wine which represents the mortar used with the bricks we no longer have to place as slaves. Freedom from bondage, from Egypt, from Pharaoh.

Posted on April 22, 2016

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The Passover Egg: Symbol of a Weeping Earth

pink eggs crop

Coming out of Egypt, the Children of Israel crossed the Sea of Reeds (also known as the Red Sea) walking on “dry land in the midst of the sea.” The Hasidic master, the Netivot Shalom, explains this to mean that even after they emerged onto dry land, the People continued to experience themselves as if in the midst of a miracle. The sea’s parting became a lens through which they experienced the miracles of every day, and ever afterward they saw their world as wondrous, amazing. The cataclysmic phenomenon of the sea’s un-natural parting sensitized them to the miraculous order of nature in her ordinary state, in which seas ebb and flow by the force of predictable tides. The miracle of the ordinary was amplified by experience of the extra-ordinary.

Posted on April 21, 2016

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