A Comprehensive and Updated LGBTQ Hanukkah Gift Guide!

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This year Hanukkah happens to begin on Christmas and end on New Years. With all that’s happening on your calendar, it can be hard to find a time to go shopping for those you love– so we’ve done it for you! Below you’ll find clothing, decorations, books, and more for the queer Jews and allies in your life! (Click on each gift to find out where to purchase it)

Posted on December 7, 2016

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Trans Day of Remembrance: To Every Thing There is a Season

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A few weeks ago, many Jewish communities, mine included, read from Megilat Kohelet (Ecclesiastes) during the holiday of Sukkot. I heard the reading of Kohelet on my sister’s bat mitzvah – the first time I had been to my synagogue for a service since I came out as trans. The writer of Kohelet is believed to be King Solomon, the wisest man ever, and the son of one of the most famous bisexual men ever – King David.

Posted on November 18, 2016

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Jewish Teens Stand up to Celebrate Their Differences

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Here.Now. is a teen-driven Jewish movement providing support, building connections, and reducing mental health-related stigma through creativity, partnerships, events, and innovative online content. They recently paired teens with professional comedians from MTV and Comedy Central to write comedy about celebrating resilience and loving their differences! On November 20th, the teens will make their major comedy club debut.

Posted on November 16, 2016

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Reflections from an Orthodox Rabbi with a Trans Child

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I’m writing this as the father of a transgender child, who feels constricted in a space too narrow to accept my child and so many of God’s children as equals. I’m also frustrated, as someone who identifies as some version of traditional, at how small we have made the Torah and the limits that we have put on God and holiness. It’s my intention that by expanding Torah thoughts we can get closer to understanding how big and inclusive the Torah really is.

Posted on November 7, 2016

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Coming Out L’dor V’dor: Different Expectations for Different Generations

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Until my grandfather’s death in July, I’d only attended one funeral. It was for a friend’s father in the seventh grade, and while I grieved for my friend, I didn’t understand the gravity of the situation, or what going to  a Jewish funeral really meant. I visited her house for shiva, paid my respects, and returned to my own home, putting the entire event out of my mind. It never occurred to me that all the Jewish rituals she observed in the following days were put in place for a reason. I didn’t understand that they were there to help one grieve.

Posted on November 1, 2016

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Voting for Our Future: How LGBTQ Jews can Support Others

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The Jewish New Year is a time of personal reflection. During the High Holidays, we reflected on the past year, asked for forgiveness from those we have wronged and looked toward the year ahead and how we could improve. This High Holiday season, it seemed like the rest of the country was reflecting with us. The upcoming presidential election has provided an opportunity for us to reflect on the past eight years, and in a month we will cast votes that will partially determine our future for the four years ahead. It is, in many ways, a High Holiday for the nation.

Posted on October 26, 2016

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A Moonstone for the Feast of Tabernacles: Celebrating Sukkot as a part of a Jewish and Queer Community

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The theory of a sukkah feels queer to me – a temporary, self-built space for the purpose of shelter, but also importantly with an open roof for a view of the stars. It reminds me of a garden witch, a midwife, an herbalist lesbian pulling herbs from her garden to dry and dangle from the door of her room. It reminds me of alternative histories, and sets of knowledge – my friends sitting around a coffee table analyzing each other’s birth charts, brewing each other rose bud tea for aching hearts, or mixing personalized lotions and sugar scrubs with lavender for soft skin. LGBT communities, LGBT families, are temporary structures for safety like the sukkah itself. They’re built out of necessity, with open roofs and a mystical air. They’re comforting, they’re placeless, and they’re adaptable.

Posted on October 21, 2016

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