JOFA’s Torch
Agreement vs. Acceptance
As a Jewish woman raised in a Conservative home, a Reform synagogue, and who has been Modern Orthodox since the ...
Jewish Women Deserve Better
Five months ago, I wrote about my struggles as a newly married woman in adjusting to the observance of Taharat ...
The Shofar Is Calling; Will You Answer?
Each shofar has a unique undulating shape and trumpeting sound. The sound may be low and haunting or bold and ...
An Open Letter to My Bais Yaakov Education
To My Bais Yaakov Education,I thought I knew what I was getting into when I made the jump from a ...
The Other ‘F’ Word
Feminism has become a dirty word.In discussions with students, this is what I hear: “Sure, I think women should get ...
Blessing the Shabbat Lights – A “Modern” Jewish Ritual
The quintessential image of home, holiness, and Jewish motherhood is that of a woman blessing the Shabbat candles, performing a ...
Signing a Post-Nup: A Love Story
As I walked in the door from a long day at work, I started receiving calls and emails from friends ...
Reciting Kaddish in Unconventional and Unorthodox Circumstances
There were a couple of times when I said Kaddish in some unconventional or “unorthodox” circumstances, but they were quite ...
Owning Our Heritage: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly
“To celebrate freedom and democracy while forgetting America’s origins in a slavery economy is patriotism a’ la carte.” A recent ...
Lessons I Learned From Reciting Kaddish for Mom
The recitation of Kaddish benefits both the soul of the departed loved one, as well as the mourner.
Women in Rashi’s Time: It Wasn’t the Dark Ages for Them
On July 27, the 29th of Tammuz, I will observe the 909th yahrtzeit of Rabbi Shlomo Yizhaki, better known as ...
Shelo Asani Isha
It was mid-August and the air conditioning was broken in the café on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. Across ...