Mourning Rituals

The Casket, or Aron

The rabbis mandated a simple wooden coffin to equalize people in death and to enable the return to dust.

Tahara, Preparing the Body for Burial

A Jewish ritual cleansing of the deceased fulfills the verse from Ecclesiastes 5:14, "As we come forth, so we shall return."

Why Parents Are the Only Loved Ones Traditionally Mourned a Full Year

Rites for mothers and fathers are more demanding than those for other relatives, even siblings, spouses and children.

Alternative Yizkor Prayers To Say For Abusive Parents

Two moving renditions of Yizkor to recite in addition to, or in place of the traditional Yizkor prayer.

Ending Shiva

Getting up and walking around the block marks the end of a week of mourning.

Ask the Expert: Mourning Missing Persons

How do we mourn without a body?

El Maleh Rahamim

A prayer of remembrance.

Kriah: A Tangible and Obligatory Expression of Grief

Kriah, or tearing of a piece of clothing, helps mourners confront the reality of death.

Meal of Consolation (Seudat Havra’ah)

The ritual meal after a Jewish funeral.

Burial and Mourning

An overview of Jewish death and mourning practices.

Special Issues in Mourning

The Jewish tradition explains how converts are to mourn, whether a wedding should be postponed and the kohen's delimited relationship to the dead.

Role of the Shiva Minyan

The daily prayer services in the mourner's home offer community and connection to those facing devastating loss.