What’s More Important in Judaism — Others or Yourself?

This video is one in a 4-part series called Rooted: Jewish Values Run Deep, exploring the productive tensions inherent in Jewish values. These questions serve as a starting point for both personal reflection and community conversation — so each is accompanied by a guide that can help deepen these dialogues. Download the full guide here.

Community Building Questions

  • Judaism highly values physical presence. What does it mean to be Jewish in a digital era when people don’t as much meet face to face?
  • Jewish ritual highlights the need for community — but how does it also work to preserve the individual?
  • Which is more important: a thriving community or a thriving self? How do these forces interact to create both vicious and virtuous cycles?

Breaking Barriers Questions

  • Have you ever felt unseen within a group you were in? Or, when have you felt you particularly belong to a community or group?
  • Have you ever felt especially seen or unseen in the Jewish community?
  • Share a story with the group or a partner about a time you felt unseen.
  • What would have helped you feel more seen as an individual within this group? What was it that made you feel you belong?

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