Bring It On, Elul

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Today is the first day of Elul, the last month in the Jewish calendar. Traditionally we use this month to fix up things we’ve been doing wrong in the past year so that we can enter into the High Holidays with a clean slate.

Typically, for me, Elul is a time when I freak out about how quickly the year has gone by, and then, a few days before Rosh Hashanah, I start to panic about all the wrongs I need to right, and all the ways I want to change my life. By the time the holiday has begun and I’m eating apples and honey I’m already feeling dread about how unlikely it is that I’ll live up to my resolutions for myself.

But this year is different. I’m not sure in precisely what way, but I could tell even last week that this year I wouldn’t have the same Elul experience as usual. Maybe it’s because my mom’s second yahrzeit is a week away. Maybe it’s because my year has been so up and down. Maybe it’s because I spent the summer reading poetry, riding my bike, doing yoga, and making pie, and I somehow have ended up feeling like a better and more fun version of myself. Whatever it is, it caused me to wake up early this morning to attend a minyan in someone’s apartment.

I don’t know what happened exactly. Maybe it was because I was still waking up a little, or because I was falling back into the rhythm of a daily minyan, something I’ve been avoiding since I finished saying Kaddish. But sometime in the middle of Hallel I had what, I think, was a spiritual experience. A few seconds strung together, a feeling of lightness and wholeness, a flicker of awe, and then, very quickly, everything went back to normal again. After we had finished davening we blew the shofar, and I wondered if I would cry, which I sometimes do when hearing the shofar–it triggers something, I suppose–but I didn’t.

Elul is about putting together the things you’ve broken in the past year. It assumes that you’ve broken some things, and allows for time to reassemble yourself. I think in that moment I experienced just a hint of what it’s like to be put back together. Just enough to act as a carrot for the month to come. Just enough to remind me of all the work I have to do.

Posted on August 11, 2010

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