Speaking to God

Prayer means learning how to speak with God


Reprinted with permission of the author from
The Healer of Shattered Hearts: A Jewish View of God
(Henry Holt).

The Rabbis call prayer the service of the heart. The sac­rificial metaphor (for “service” in the phrase above recalls the service and sacrifices of the Temple) is suggestive. Jew­ish prayer is built upon the idea that an offering is being made to God. Something is being given–the fervor and fullness of our souls. “One’s prayer is not heeded,” says the Talmud, “unless God is approached with one’s heart in one’s hands” (Taanit 8a).

prayer quizPrayer is the complete act of the human spirit, touching all the faculties–intellectual, emotional, spiritual, and even physical (in the prescribed motions of prayer). Such an offering is intended to be complete, the worshipers placing themselves on a metaphorical altar, putting themselves “on the line” in the hopes of acceptance.

Is God Listening?

One difference between prayer and human communica­tion is the assurance of God’s acceptance, if not God’s as­sent. The tradition accepts that God will embrace any prayer that is offered willingly and fervently.

This does not make prayer easy. For if the assurance of acceptance is one difference between human and Divine communication, the other difference is the uncertainty of response. We cannot know if anyone is listening. Is prayer truly a dialogue, or only a monologue? Any response in our lives to prayer is erratic at best. At times it is tempting to believe that something has been granted in answer to our request. In more sober moments we realize, however, that prayers do not appear to be answered in this world, that far too much is faithfully asked for and not given. If what we ask for is not granted, can we still maintain there is “re­sponse”?

Only inside can we feel if there is any reply. No activity in the world can conclusively demonstrate dialogue. Per­haps in the subjective chambers of the individual soul one may conclude that there was communication, but it is highly personal and ever uncertain. Everyone who prays struggles with the deep fear that this time, the only answer will be absence, silence.

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David Wolpe is the rabbi of Temple Sinai in Los Angeles and the author of several books on Jewish belief.

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