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Reprinted with permission from Torah Topics for Today.
Chores can be hard when forced to do them or easy and enjoyable if we choose to do them. There are ways to introduce them to our children so that they become more naturally executed responsibilities rather than an occasion for parental nagging.
This week’s Torah portion offers some clues. We meet Rebekah, who is a picture of motion and energy. She is a young woman with a jug on her shoulder on her way to the well to draw water for her family. That had to be a hard chore due to the weight of the clay jug filled with water.
Rebekah must have known how important this chore of life-sustaining water was to her family. She appears very willing to complete the task. Abraham’s servant has been sent to look for a wife for Isaac. As soon as Rebekah sees him, she runs to fill her jug and gives him water, and then she runs back again to get water for his camels. Rebekah doesn’t hesitate.
She chooses to be helpful. Not only does she fulfill her own obligations, but she goes beyond her duty to help others and then their animals. It’s from these qualities that Abraham’s servant realizes that she would be an excellent wife for Isaac.
We can learn from Rebekah. She doesn’t resist chores because she knows that the responsibility for her family doesn’t only lie with her parents. That responsibility is shared among adults and children alike. While on one hand children inhabit a protected island of childhood, they also have commitments to the well-being of their family. As they grow older, their responsibilities expand so that they are able to play a larger role in taking care of their family.
TALK TO YOUR KIDS about the importance of their taking responsibility for helping your family.
CONNECT TO THEIR LIVES:
· Which chores are easy for you?
· Which are hard? Why?
· Why are chores important to do?
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