In Our Own Sight

As parents, we want to see our kids succeed in all facets of life – whether that is getting into a certain college, establishing themselves in a career of their choice, or empowering them to compete in the global marketplace.  In many ways, our children’s success is the “promised land”.

In Shlah, this week’s Torah portion, the Israelites are waiting to enter the actual Promised Land. Before entering, God instructs them to send a representative from each of the twelve tribes to check it out. Two spies came back with glowing reports, but the other ten spies told stories of gloom and doom.  What would cause the spies to experience the Promised Land so differently?  They were given the same information before leaving, and they reported on the same land and people. We read:

‘The land, through which we have passed to spy it out, is a land that eats up its inhabitants; and all the people that we saw in it are men of great stature. There we saw the giants, the sons of Anak, descended from the giants. In our eyes, we seemed like grasshoppers, and so we were in their eyes.‘  (Numbers 13:32-33)

How we experience life is so often a result of how we see ourselves.   It seems that the only difference between our spies was their self-image.

How do we help our children get to the “promised land” of success? We have to stop preparing the way for the child and do the hard work of preparing the child for the way. Instead of just helping the child build up a robust resume, we need to offer them the chance to develop and foster leadership, grit, collaboration, creativity, tenacity, resilience, and a strong self-image.

And, you know what?  Summers at Jewish camp encourage the growth of all of these things. Away from our watchful eyes, our campers and staff increase their independence, friendship, confidence, responsibility, and teamwork, along with a sense of peoplehood, community, and heritage.   At Jewish camp, they learn 21st Century Skills and become mensches with strong character.

Here the “promised land” is more than just academic and career-oriented success.  It means nurturing social and emotional intelligences, critical-thinking, and problem-solving abilities.  It means a new generation that not only “does well” but “does good”.   The “promised land” of today is a generation that values self-awareness, self-actualization, and a strong self-image.

Inspired by the life skills that camp has nurtured in generations of campers, we’re highlighting 21st Century Skills for our summer blog series.  We’ll be featuring personal stories from camp alumni and professionals across the field exemplifying how Jewish camp provided the ideal environment to become the best version of themselves.

Follow along here on The Canteen all summer long, and share how Jewish camp impacted your growth!  Tell us your story in the comments, on Facebook or tweet @JewishCamp using the hashtag #JCampSkills.


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