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Lag Ba'Omer in Meron

The final resting place of Shimon bar Yohai is a source of blessings for many.

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  • I'd never been to Meron before that night.

    Ostensibly, there was no reason to travel there. Meron is a tiny town situated on a mountain in the woods of northern Israel. It barely has a main street, let alone a strip mall or hotel. Perhaps its only claim to fame is that it serves as the final resting place for famous rabbinic figures: Hillel, Shammai, and, Shimon bar Yohai (also known as Simeon ben Yohai).
    Lag B'Omer in Meron
    It's also the site of one of the biggest parties in Israel.

    Bar Yohai's Request

    Bar Yohai was a second century rabbi whose teachings are found in the Mishnah. Traditionally, he was thought to be the author of the Zohar, the seminal kabbalistic work, though modern scholars have questioned this theory. Before he died, Rabbi Shimon bar Yohai requested that on his yahrzeit--which falls on Lag Ba'Omer--his students mark the day by rejoicing, instead of weeping.

    So every year on Lag Ba'Omer, this small town is overrun by nearly a million people, joining together in celebration.

    It is a diverse crowd: male and female, old and young, ultra religious and completely secular. In the area near the top of the mountain, tents pop up everywhere. The hundreds of thousands of visitors build bonfires, sheht animals for feasts, and pray. Benevolent people give away thousands of homemade sandwiches and salads. Anybody is welcome to partake.

    Young religious zealots dance to trance music or to the sound of their own drums. Chabad Hasidim are out in force luring tourists into donning tefillin. The entire mountainside is transformed into a promenade where superstars of the Israeli religious music scene participate in impromptu jams with the tourists. The festive meals--often picnics or barbecues--are yet another opportunity to break into song, storytelling, prayer, telling jokes, and simply spending time with family or friends.

    At first glance, the tiny hilltop town looks like complete mayhem. But Meron also becomes a place where strangers become friends. Perhaps when Shimon bar Yohai envisioned his followers celebrating rather than mourning, he knew that a party this good would come out of it.

    A Reflection

    I wrote this poem, "Bar Yohai (Ai Yai Yai)," after I attended Lag Ba'Omer in Meron. I'd spent all day climbing up and down the hill, praying, people-watching, passing goats being slaughtered, and children playing every manner of ball game. I'd seen a rabbi, a descendent of Bar Yohai, throwing himself onto the top of the famed scholar's tomb, weeping. I'd seen totally secular Israelis, standing in their too-tight shorts and muscle shirts, whispering psalms in the most fervent, humbled voices.

    It was one of the most spiritual events I'd ever experienced. Yet everything about it was also intensely, singularly physical. I barely spoke the language. I didn't understand many of the customs. It was a clash of dozens of cultures, some totally alien to me, and some I couldn't even name. But all of them distinctly and unmistakably Jewish.

    Bar Yohai (Ai Yai Yai)

    That night we ran
    from bar Yohai's grave to
    deep in the valley of Meron

    It felt like the prophet was pushing us,
    not gravity
    as we soared past dancing Hasidim and
    old ladies giving out cookies and
    fortunes and
    boxes of yeshiva boys
    seeing the sun
    for the first time in
    weeks

    Inside the tomb I
    snuck in early
    not wanting to wait for nightfall

    Yes, I know
    for those who gathered there at sunset there
    were promises of a sin-free life at stake
    I didn’t want that
    I just wanted to say hi

    apparently everyone had the same idea
    the sweat of eight
    hundred thousand sweaty Israeli men
    crowded up against me
    cramming into my personal space
    shirts splayed open like an autopsy
    broadcasting more sweat and
    Stay away from me, I'm a smell machine
    fighting to get closer to the kever
    I wanted to tell them
    I'm only here for the rabbi
     
    Rabbi Shimon bar Yohai hid out in a cave for 13 years
    learning Torah and being antisocial
    I don't blame him,
    that's how I learned to love G-d
    today eight hundred thousand people came there
    all trying to speak the same language
    everyone tried to talk to each other but
    no one was listening
    the chaos was its own language

    I met strangers all day, hugged them like brothers
    we weren't sure to go from there so
    we laughed and left

    At the moment of sunset
    all eight hundred thousand prayed at once, toward Jerusalem
    and I ran
    all eight hundred thousand people
    scattered over that hill
    and I wanted to get away from all of them
    everything rushed by me,
    people
    music
    food
    felt like I wasn’t moving at all
    like a Buddhist paradox

    Halfway down I crashed
    into an old Sephardic lady who looked like she'd
    just cooked dinner for eight hundred thousand

    She handed me a baguette full of
    vegetables rescued from a king's table
    hundreds of years ago
    No thanks, I said, I don't know you

    Don’t be stupid, son, start eating, she said
    Thirteen years in a cave is a long time

     
    She fed me like the apocalypse
    was coming
    I ate just enough
    to keep running

     

    Photograph by Itta Werdiger Roth

    Matthue Roth

    Matthue Roth is the author, most recently, of the Russian Jewish immigrant geek novel Losers, as well as two other novels and a memoir. He is an Associate Editor at MyJewishLearning.com.

     
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