Parashat Shemini
Alcoholism And
The “Nation Of Priests”
The priestly
prohibition against excessive drinking reminds us to support those in our
community challenged by alcoholism.
By Rabbi Carl Perkins
The following article is reprinted with permission from SocialAction.com.
One of
the most essential qualities that we look for in someone in whom we would want
to put our trust is sobriety. We want to know that a person to whom we are
turning for help is able to listen to us with full, undistracted attention.
It thus
should come as no surprise that, in this week's Torah portion, priests are
prohibited from excessive drinking: "Drink no wine nor other intoxicant
... when you enter the Tent of Meeting ... for you must distinguish between the
sacred and the profane, and between the unclean and the clean; and you must
teach the Israelites all the laws which Adonai (God) has imparted to
them through Moses" (Leviticus 10:8-11).
Yet it
may come as a surprise to realize that the priests had to be warned against
excessive drinking. Shouldn't it have been obvious that inebriation would
prevent them from appropriately fulfilling their responsibilities?
Perhaps
not. This law reminds us that, in every age, men and women have succumbed to
the deleterious effects of alcohol and other drugs. Alcohol has long been known
to humankind as a source of comfort in times of stress. For example, in the
Book of Proverbs (31:6) we read, "Give strong drink to the hapless and
wine to the embittered. Let them drink ... and put their troubles out of mind."
Yet
strong drink can cloud one's judgment and lead one astray. As Isaiah wrote,
"Priest and prophet are muddled by liquor; they are confused by wine. They
are muddled in their visions, they stumble in judgment." It was probably
as tempting thousands of years ago as it is today, for men and
women--especially those in high-profile occupations--to drown their sorrows in
alcohol.
Though
the effects of alcohol have long been known, alcoholism has not always been
well understood. Too often in the past, alcoholics would be mocked or despised,
punished or banished from the community.
Too
often they would have to fend for themselves, without any of the communal
support systems that are available to aid those in distress--and sadly,
particularly among Jews, without honest acknowledgement of the disease of
alcoholism and addiction within our communities.
Today we
recognize that alcoholism and chemical addiction are conditions that can be
treated. They require a firm commitment on the part of the affected individuals,
but also the explicit and implicit support of their community as well.
JACS
(Jewish Alcoholics, Chemically Dependent Persons, and Significant Others) is an
important organization that has helped thousands of Jews who are in the process
of recovering from alcoholism and chemical dependency. JACS can be a lifeline
to the Jewish alcoholic or addict and to members of his or her family who may
feel isolated and alone--as individuals affected by addiction in the Jewish
community, and as Jews within the recovery community.
Once
upon a time, Jews found it hard to believe that there were any Jewish
alcoholics. Denial was a natural, conventional response to the suggestion that
Jews might also be susceptible to alcoholism or other addictions. Now, we know
better, and yet still many Jews feel ashamed to admit that they or members of
their family suffer from chemical dependency.
All of
us can help in this regard. Without erring by becoming co-dependent or
unwittingly cooperating with unhealthy patterns, we can and should offer
support. We can open our synagogues and JCCs to 12-step programs--which assist
people in their recovery from a wide range of addictions (including gambling,
overeating, and sex) as well as their families, and are often located in
churches--and JACS meetings. We can reach out with compassion and concern, as
individuals and as communities. And we can work to raise awareness about
addiction in the Jewish community
Many of us take our sobriety for granted, yet there are many
men and women who have to work very hard at being healthy and sober each and
every day of their lives. Shouldn't we consider it holy work to help them
achieve their goal?
Rabbi Carl Perkins is rabbi of Temple Aliyah in Needham,
Mass.