Jewish Social Welfare
How is one to act on this principle? Maimonides' "do for others…" principle implies a high degree of concern not only for others' physical welfare, but also for their feelings and dignity. In such acts as visiting the sick or comforting mourners, one shows concern for those in emotional distress.
Providing for a bride's material needs for her wedding and "gladdening a bride and groom" at their wedding celebration ensure that the bride and groom know that the community wants them to have a happy start in married life.
In "bearing the bier on one's shoulder" and in "going before the coffin," one shows concern for the deceased's dignity, as one does in other aspects of attending to the needs of the deceased: preparing the body for burial, providing constant attendants until the funeral, and even, in some communities, asking forgiveness for those who did these things if any indignity was caused to the deceased.
Providing for the needy and homeless, too, must be done in a way that shows concern for the recipients' feelings, not only for their financial need. "Rabbi Yannai saw a man give money to a poor person in public. Rabbi Yannai said: It would have been better for you not to give him money than to give him money and embarrass him" (BT, Hagigah, 5a). Maimonides writes that one should give to the poor "with a pleasant expression and happily, while commiserating with the needy person about his suffering…If a needy person asks for money and one has nothing to give him, one should make him feel better by speaking nicely with him." (Mishneh Torah, Laws of Gifts to the Poor, chapter 10)..
A Talmudic statement (Babylonian Talmud, Sotah 14a) offers a different rationale for the preoccupation with social welfare. Rather than emphasizing brotherhood, this passage sees concern for social welfare as deriving from the commandment to emulate God: "Rabbi Hama, son of Rabbi Hanina taught: How can one 'walk in the ways of God' (as Deuteronomy 13:5 demands)? …One should emulate the traits demonstrated in His actions. Just as He clothes the naked (citing Genesis 3:21, in which God is said to clothe Adam and Eve), so must you clothe the naked. Just as He visits the sick (citing Gen 18:1 in which God is said to visit Abraham after his circumcision), so must you visit the sick. God buried the dead (citing Deuteronomy 34:6, where God is said to bury Moses), so must you bury the dead."
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